There is a positive correlation between the effort one puts in and the benefits one receives.

To help in one way but proceed to harm in another.

Granting someone a limited concession will encourage them to take greater liberties.

If one gives someone enough freedom of action, they may destroy themselves by foolish actions.

Seek to dispel ill-will before a day’s end, and not to act upon desires for vengeance.

(archaic) second-person singular simple present form of give

It is more worthwhile to teach someone to do something (for themselves) than to do it for them (on an ongoing basis).