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I asked Mary, but she said that she didn't know.

She could do forty knots in good weather.

She is a poor place, but has beautiful scenery and friendly people.

She only gets thirty miles to the gallon on the highway, but she’s durable.

Optimal experience is thus something that we make happen. For a child, it could be placing with trembling fingers the last block on a tower she has built, higher than any she has built so far; for a swimmer, it could be trying to beat his own record; for a violinist, mastering an intricate musical passage.