English Dictionary

it's not you, it's me

フレーズ

皮肉的用法 頻度副詞 皮肉

(often ironic, sarcastic) Don't blame yourself for the end of our relationship.

日本語の意味

あなたには非がなく、私自身に原因があるという意味。 / （しばしば皮肉や嫌味を込めて）関係の終焉において、相手を責めないでほしいというニュアンス。

When I handed her the breakup letter, I wrote it's not you, it's me because I didn't want her to blame herself for our problems.

別れの手紙を渡したとき、彼女に自分を責めさせたくなくて「悪いのは君じゃなくて私だ」と書いた。私たちの問題を彼女のせいにしてほしくなかったからだ。

意味（1）

(often ironic, sarcastic) Don't blame yourself for the end of our relationship.

Matthew: We have a problem... Melissa: Is it me? Matthew: No, no, no. It's not you, it's me. I'm not attracted to you. Melissa: Oh. Matthew: Now, I don't want you to take this as a rejection, but as an acceptance between two people whose needs are profoundly incompatible. And you're not alone. I devote an entire chapter to this in my book.

it's not you （ canonical ）

it's me （ canonical ）