[…] women, by and large, do not like themselves very much: their ambition gaps, their orgasm gaps, their imposter syndrome, […] their trainwrecks, and their need for trainwrecks; the enduring, self-loathing need to find someone about whom they can say well, at least I'm not that girl.

Nobles of the marquisdom of Saluce. — Holinshed.

Her book has, perhaps, been a good one; it has refreshed, refilled, rewarmed her heart […]

So, you appear to approve of the treatment the young one was getting from the old fartbag.