He never seems to consider the feelings of others.

A barber shop in Yencheng, Kiangsu province, had to close down for self-examination because one impatient cadre couldn't get a haircut.…The barbers offered that arrangement could be made immediately to give the district bureau chief the haircut he wanted, but the cadre had now changed his mind. “I wouldn’t let any of you cut my hair even if all the other barbers in Yencheng were dead,” he said, then added: “You all are outrageous. None of you know how to serve customers. This place must be closed tomorrow for a thorough re-evaluation."

Polydamas' role becomes more plausible if we assume that he was not Makedonian at all but Pharsalian.

To help you discover your own beauty as a flower. Your own identity as a snowflake - your snowflakeness. You are the only 'you' you will ever know .