This painstaking process of checking texts and cultural data rather than dictionaries may seem to be not worth the candle for some (but not all) long-rangers.

Media is bite-size (or snackable). Content has to be consumable or people don't know how to fit it into their day.

The everchanging expectations voiced by an endless stream of “experts” (and the momfluencer with 12K followers and the gingham filter for that perfect orange-y skin glow) makes it impossible to feel like you're succeeding at motherhood.

Pick an unsteamy moment to bring up your virginity, says Kuriansky. Try, 'I feel nervous to say this, but I'm not as experienced as you might think.'