Maternal desire is at once obvious and invisible partly because it is so easily confused with other things. Those fighting for women's progress too often misconstrue it as a throwback or excuse, a self-curtailment of potential. Those who champion women's maternal role too often define it narrowly in the context of service—to one's child, husband, or God.

Scald the milk until little bubbles form.

When the birds ate the seeds he had planted, the farmer was forced to reseed the field.

In anonymous participation, people do not reveal their identity, and use nicknames rather than real names. In contrast, people participating onymously are willing to share their real identity (full name, occupation, e-mail, etc.).