The Muses' friend (grey-eyed Aurora) yet Held all the meadows in a cooling sweat, The milk-white gossamers not upwards snow'd, Nor was the sharp and useful-steering goad

She wasn't necessarily interested in looking for a pick-up, although she probably wouldn't say no to the right offer.

Henna, a vegetable extract, was one of the earliest known dyes and is still used as a reddener for hair; nitrate of silver and gum water, walnut juice, iron rust, vinegar - all sorts of recipes have been tried over the years...

I doubt most wedding fair vendors would recognise an enby even if you carried an explanatory sign.