Once each couple has been able to get past the sexpectation that they are both going to react to their relationship from the same perspective, then they can get on with learning.

Being all this time abandoned from your bed.

[W]hen God ſaith of himſelfe, that he is one who acquiting will not acquite the wicked, his meaning is, that whatſoeuer may be ſuppoſed becauſe of his patience, yet he will not fully and finally diſcharge thoſe who goe on ſtill in their vngodly courſes, and preſume vpon his Mercy, without repentance.

Show me that cumhole